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Constipation: When Your Pelvic Floor Is Part of the Problem

Writer: Dr. Ashley Hocutt
Dr. Ashley Hocutt
6 hours ago
11 min read

Constipation isn't always as simple as “I need more fiber.”


It can look like hard or pellet-like stool, straining to go, spending a long time on the toilet, feeling like you didn't completely empty, or needing to use certain positions or techniques just to have a bowel movement.


And while fiber, fluids, and other healthy habits can absolutely be helpful, sometimes you can be doing all the “right” things and still have trouble going.


That's because a bowel movement is the end result of a much bigger process.


Your digestive system has to move food and waste through the body, your stool needs to develop the right consistency, your rectum needs to sense that it's time to empty, and your pelvic floor needs to coordinate with your abdomen to let the stool out.


When one part of that process isn't working well, pooping can become much harder than it should be.


So let's look at the whole picture—from digestion to elimination—and where your pelvic floor may fit into it.


Illustration showing the digestive tract and pelvic floor as connected parts of bowel function

What happens before stool reaches your rectum?

A bowel movement starts long before you sit down on the toilet.


Digestion begins in your mouth. Chewing your food breaks it down and mixes it with saliva, which is the first step in the digestive process. From there, food travels through your stomach and small intestine, where it is further broken down and nutrients are absorbed.


What remains eventually moves into your large intestine. Your colon helps absorb water and electrolytes from what is left while using coordinated muscle contractions to move the contents forward toward the sigmoid colon and rectum.


But your digestive tract isn't working on its own. Your brain and your gut are in constant communication through your nervous system. Hormones and nerves help regulate digestion, intestinal movement, and sensation, while the enteric nervous system within the digestive tract helps control how your gut muscles contract and relax.


This is sometimes referred to as the gut-brain connection or gut-brain axis.


You may have noticed this yourself. Sometimes your gut seems to “know” when you're nervous, or you suddenly need to use the bathroom after eating. Your nervous system and digestive tract are constantly communicating and responding to what's happening inside and outside your body.


So by the time stool reaches the end of your digestive tract, there has already been a lot of coordination happening throughout your body.


And then comes the final step: emptying the rectum. This is where the pelvic floor becomes especially important—but it's not the only set of muscles involved.


What happens when stool reaches the rectum?

As stool moves through the descending and sigmoid colon, the rectosigmoid region can hold stool until your body is ready to move it toward the rectum and eventually empty it.


When stool enters and distends the rectum, stretch-sensitive nerves send signals to your brain. This is part of what creates the urge to have a bowel movement.


But your body is doing something else at the same time that you probably aren't aware of.


As the rectum fills, the internal anal sphincter can temporarily relax through a normal reflex called the rectoanal inhibitory reflex. This allows a small amount of rectal contents to enter the upper anal canal, where sensory receptors help your body determine whether the contents are gas, liquid, or solid stool. This is sometimes called the sampling reflex.


This is an important part of how your body maintains continence. Your nervous system is constantly gathering information and helping you respond appropriately rather than requiring you to consciously analyze every sensation coming from your rectum.


And here's where emptying becomes an even more interesting process: pooping isn't entirely voluntary, but it isn't entirely involuntary either.


The internal anal sphincter is made of smooth muscle and works involuntarily.


When the time is right, it needs to relax enough to allow stool to pass.


You also have muscles you can consciously control, including your external anal sphincter and pelvic floor muscles. When you aren't ready to go, these muscles help you hold stool in. When you are ready, they need to relax and allow the anal canal to open.


At the same time, the rectum and lower colon contribute to moving stool forward, while your diaphragm and abdominal muscles can increase pressure to help with evacuation. These pieces need to work together rather than one muscle doing all the work.


So a bowel movement involves a surprisingly coordinated sequence:


  • Your colon moves stool forward.

  • Your rectum senses what is arriving.

  • Your nervous system receives and interprets those signals.

  • The internal anal sphincter responds automatically.

  • Your pelvic floor and external sphincter relax when you're ready.

  • Your rectum and colon help propel the stool forward.

  • And your abdomen and diaphragm help create the pressure needed to empty.


That's a lot of coordination for something we often think of as simply “pushing.”


And this is one reason constipation isn't always fixed by adding more fiber.


Sometimes the stool is there, but the timing, sensation, motility, muscle coordination, or ability to relax isn't working as well as it should.


Constipation doesn't always look the way you think

When most people hear the word constipation, they picture someone who hasn't had a bowel movement in several days.


But constipation can look very different from person to person.


You may be constipated if you:

  • Have hard, dry, or pellet-like stools

  • Have to strain or push a lot to get stool out

  • Feel like you can't completely empty

  • Feel like something is blocking the stool from coming out

  • Need to change your position, press around the perineum or vagina, or use your fingers to help empty

  • Spend a long time on the toilet trying to have a bowel movement

  • Go regularly but still feel like your bowel movements are difficult or incomplete


You can even have a bowel movement every day and still be constipated. Frequency is only one piece of the picture. What matters is how easily you are able to empty and whether you feel like you are actually finished.


You may also notice bloating, abdominal discomfort, or a feeling of fullness when your bowel movements aren't moving well.


This is why I don't like to think about constipation as simply “not pooping enough.” A better question is:


What is making it difficult for your body to move stool through and empty it comfortably?


The answer can be different from one person to the next.


For some people, the stool itself is too hard or too dry. For others, stool may be moving too slowly through the colon. And for some, the stool reaches the rectum just fine, but the muscles and nervous system involved in emptying aren't coordinating the way they should.


Sometimes there is more than one factor at play.


So why does constipation happen?

There isn't one single cause of constipation.


Sometimes the problem starts with the stool itself. Sometimes it has more to do with how quickly things are moving through the digestive tract. And sometimes the difficulty happens right at the point of emptying.


Here are some of the more common pieces that can contribute:


Stool consistency

Your stool needs the right amount of water and bulk to move through your colon and be expelled easily.


Fiber can be helpful here. Different types of fiber work in different ways.


Psyllium, for example, can absorb and hold water and add bulk to stool, helping produce a softer, more formed bowel movement. Among the fiber supplements evaluated in the AGA/ACG guideline, psyllium has the clearest evidence for helping with chronic constipation.


Other types of fiber work differently, so fiber isn't simply one thing that you can endlessly increase.


Fluids are important too.


But more fiber isn't always better. If you're already getting enough fiber and fluids and you're still struggling, simply adding more may not address the reason you're having trouble.


Slow movement through the colon

Your colon doesn't just sit there waiting for stool to arrive. It uses coordinated muscle contractions to move its contents forward.


Sometimes that movement is slower than it should be. This can happen for many reasons, including changes in routine, not getting enough physical activity, certain medications, medical conditions, or changes in how the nervous system is regulating the digestive tract.


When stool moves more slowly, the colon has more time to absorb water from it, which can make it progressively firmer and harder to pass.


Changes in sensation and the urge to go

Your body relies on signals from the rectum and nervous system to tell you when it is time to have a bowel movement.


If you regularly ignore that signal or delay going, your bowel habits and your response to those sensations can change. You may eventually notice the urge less clearly or not feel it until your rectum is very full.


This is one reason responding to your body's signals matters.


Pelvic floor coordination

For some people, the stool has made it all the way to the rectum, but emptying is still difficult.


Your pelvic floor and anal sphincters need to coordinate with the pressure generated by your abdomen and diaphragm and the contractions of your rectum and colon. The muscles that help keep you continent need to be able to relax at the appropriate time.


If those muscles tighten when you're trying to empty—or if you're having trouble sensing when and how to relax them—you may strain, feel blocked, or never quite feel finished.


This doesn't necessarily mean your pelvic floor is “too tight.” Sometimes the bigger issue is coordination.


Structural changes

Sometimes there is also a structural reason that emptying is difficult.


For example, a rectocele is a bulging of the rectal wall toward the vagina. Stool can sometimes collect in that bulge, making it harder to completely empty.


Illustration showing a rectocele and how it can affect bowel emptying

Some people with a rectocele notice that they need to strain, change positions, or use pressure on the vaginal or perineal area to help stool come out.


Other forms of pelvic organ prolapse or changes in the position and support of the pelvic organs can also contribute to difficulty emptying.


And having a structural change doesn't necessarily mean that surgery is the answer. How well the muscles, pressure, sensation, and structure work together matters too. Current guidance on obstructed defecation emphasizes looking at both anatomy and function, with conservative treatment—including pelvic floor re-education—often used as first-line management.


More than one factor

And this is important: constipation doesn't always have one neat explanation.


You might have slower motility and firmer stool. You might have a good urge to go but difficulty relaxing your pelvic floor. You might have a rectocele along with difficulty coordinating your muscles. You might also be dealing with medication side effects along with changes in your eating habits or activity level.


Your bowel function is a system, and sometimes more than one part needs attention.


When is the pelvic floor part of the problem?

By now, you can probably see that constipation is not always a pelvic floor problem.


But for some people, the pelvic floor is an important piece of the puzzle—especially when the stool is making it to the rectum, but getting it out is still difficult.


Think about what happens when you're trying to have a bowel movement. Your rectum and colon help move the stool forward. Pressure from your abdomen and diaphragm can assist with propulsion. At the same time, the muscles at the outlet need to open and get out of the way.


If your pelvic floor and external anal sphincter tighten instead of relaxing, you can end up pushing against a closed or partially closed outlet.


This can create a frustrating cycle:


You feel the urge → you push harder → the muscles tighten → the stool doesn't move well → you push even harder.


Over time, you may start to believe that you simply aren't pushing hard enough.


But sometimes the answer is actually the opposite: you need better coordination and less resistance at the outlet.


This is sometimes called dyssynergic defecation. The name sounds complicated, but the basic idea is fairly simple: the muscles involved in emptying aren't coordinating in the way they need to.


You may notice clues such as:

  • Straining even when your stool isn't particularly hard

  • Feeling blocked or like the stool is “right there” but won't come out

  • Feeling like you can't completely empty

  • Needing to sit on the toilet for a long time

  • Needing to change positions to get stool out

  • Needing to press on the perineum or vaginal wall to help empty

  • Having bowel movements that are difficult even though you're already paying attention to fiber and fluids


These symptoms don't automatically mean you have a pelvic floor coordination problem. They are simply clues that it may be worth looking at how the entire process is working, rather than assuming you need more fiber or more effort.


What can pelvic floor physical therapy do for constipation?

If your constipation seems to involve pelvic floor coordination, pelvic floor physical therapy can help—but the goal isn't simply to make your pelvic floor stronger.


In fact, strengthening may not be what you need at all.


A pelvic floor PT can look at how your breathing, abdominal pressure, pelvic floor muscles, posture, hips, and bowel habits all work together during a bowel movement.


Your evaluation may include questions about:

  • How often you have bowel movements and what they are like

  • Whether you strain or feel blocked

  • Whether you feel completely empty afterward

  • Your stool consistency

  • Your diet, fluids, medications, supplements, and activity level

  • Pelvic pain, urinary symptoms, or prolapse symptoms

  • Whether you have to change positions or use your hands to help empty


Your physical therapist may also assess your breathing mechanics, abdominal and pelvic floor muscle function, coordination, and how well you can relax the muscles involved in emptying.


Sometimes the answer is as simple as learning how to coordinate your breathing and pressure differently.


Sometimes you need to work on pelvic floor relaxation or improve your ability to sense what is happening at the pelvic outlet.


Sometimes your hips, abdomen, posture, or other areas of your body are contributing.


And sometimes the pelvic floor isn't the main issue at all—which is important information, too.


The goal is not to give everyone the same constipation exercise. The goal is to figure out what is actually getting in the way of your bowel movements and address that piece of the puzzle.


When should constipation be medically evaluated?

Most constipation can be addressed with changes in diet, fluids, movement, bowel habits, medications or supplements, and sometimes help from a pelvic floor physical therapist.


But constipation can also be a symptom of another medical condition. If your symptoms are persistent, getting worse, or aren't improving with the things you've been trying, it's worth talking with your doctor about what may be contributing.


You should also seek medical care if constipation is accompanied by blood in your stool or rectal bleeding, constant or severe abdominal pain, vomiting, fever, inability to pass gas, or unintentional weight loss.


And if you've had a significant or unexplained change in your bowel habits, especially if you have a personal or family history of colorectal problems, don't assume it's simply a pelvic floor issue.


A pelvic floor physical therapist can be an important part of the team, but we don't replace medical evaluation when there may be an underlying medical or structural problem.


Look at the whole picture

Constipation can be frustrating, especially when you've already tried the usual advice and you're still struggling.


But having difficulty with bowel movements doesn't automatically mean you need more fiber, more water, or a stronger laxative. And it doesn't automatically mean your pelvic floor is too tight.


Your bowel movements depend on a whole chain of events, from the moment you eat and your nervous system begins responding, to the movement of stool through your colon, the consistency of the stool, the signals coming from your rectum, and the coordinated opening of the muscles at the outlet.


Sometimes one part of that process needs attention. Sometimes several pieces are contributing.


That's why I don't want to simply ask, “How often are you pooping?” I want to understand what the entire process looks like for you.


Are you able to feel the urge?

Is your stool the right consistency?Is it moving through your colon well?

Can your pelvic floor relax when you need it to?

Is there a structural issue, such as a rectocele or prolapse, affecting how you empty?


Those questions can help us move beyond simply treating the symptom and start figuring out why pooping is difficult in the first place.


If you're regularly straining, feeling blocked, struggling to completely empty, or spending far too much time on the toilet, you don't have to just keep trying different remedies and hoping something works.


There may be a reason your bowel movements are difficult—and understanding that reason is the first step toward making them easier.


 
 
 

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